Rules dating work colleague
If Alyssa is the woman for you and you are the guy for her your relationship will weather these minor inconveniences.
Obviously, you and Alyssa will not get it on or take any steps in that direction at work, no matter what, even on the weekend or late at night when the office is empty.
In large workplaces ‘office romances’ are inevitable but being mature and setting ground rules from the start can save a lot of problems in the future.
It has never been a good idea to date a work colleague, to the point where many companies these days have included something about it in their company policy.
It might be jumping the gun for you or Alyssa to start job-hunting before you've even been on a date together, unless you count the lunches or whatever events led you to write, "It is pretty obvious that both of us would be happy to be more than friends" as dates.
• If you guys want to keep dating, then you'll talk about what to do about your jobs.Unfortunately there is a side to office romance that is anything but romantic, you need to sit together and discuss a game plan at the start of the relationship.Remember when you have this discussion you are not only making choices about your love life but about your career too. Establish before you return to work whether you are now in a relationship or whether it was a holiday fling. If it is a relationship then decide whether you are going to let it be generally known in the office or workplace.Beyond that, some companies have policies about co-workers dating and others don't.I can completely understand why you don't want to ask your boss for his or her opinion or permission to simply spend social time with your colleague Alyssa.
Many people, faced with having to ask their boss, "May I date my co-worker, please? At the same time, it's easy to see how it could be awkward for you, Alyssa and your co-workers if you and she become a couple, especially if your "couple dynamic" affects the in your office.