Red flags your dating a loser
Sure, he's gorgeous, funny, and charming--but early in any doomed relationship there are warning signals foretelling the bad news to come.Studies show that most women will try to justify these signs, excusing them so they don't interfere with their fantasy of having met the perfect man.I must have read it 7 times then finally came away from it with this: So it was an interesting read but this book has major problems. Second, it's only directed against men and not women. It can't hold a candle to Barbara Deangelos Let me preface this by saying that I think men are great in a variety of ways.First of all, you can red flag anybody in it, even the nice guy. I did find this book to be the epitome of misandry (hatred of men) which is the opposite of misogyny, and I felt it was very unfair to men. So this book isn't about gender-bashing, but to learn more about unhealthy patterns in relationships and ways to avoid participating in those.I kept telling her, but I told her she should do what she wants.One time I pointed out something odd, and she flipped and told me I would never understand because I hadn't been in a long relationship, and I don't know how to handle these things.**For more posts on relationships, click here to like our Facebook page for updates! But unfortunately for us women, not all of them live up to that stereotypical, ‘loser’ image of an unkempt, jobless bum playing video games on his mom’s couch.
Almost all of the flags reminded me of the last guy I dated, so either he's as messed up as many of us seem to think, or this book isn't all that helpful in distinguishing between the various red flags.Unfortunately, such signs are usually all too prophetic--they are the essence of what Sure, he's gorgeous, funny, and charming--but early in any doomed relationship there are warning signals foretelling the bad news to come.Unfortunately, such signs are usually all too prophetic--they are the essence of what Gary Aumiller and Daniel Goldfarb call "Red Flags." The question then becomes how to detect and respond to a Red Flag before it's too late.Dating can be a frustrating experience, especially once you’ve decided it’s time to start shopping for that one and only (or you’re at least open to the idea).You might spend months or even years nurturing a relationship with someone you’ve already picked out baby names with only to have everything come to a screeching halt and feel like you’ve wasted the last months or years of your life. Luckily, relationship research can give you some insight into what things you can look out for that might save you time, energy and emotional baggage down the line.
But as soon as he senses he has you, he’ll lure you back to where he’s more comfortable: the couch.