Dating a pretentious guy
But our whole relationship ended up being a lot of her getting mad about me about politics, and me not being "involved" enough for her taste." - Alex10.
"Anyone who really tries to have sex with you on the first date even though you clearly are not ready to be physical should not get a second date, let alone a relationship.
In fact, what I talk about goes for men and for women. And I can tell you – they don’t walk around all day thinking about how they’re alpha. You can have your desires met without demanding them.
What I’m advocating in this post is to identify behaviors masquerading as admirable traits. If you feel that you are attracting emotionally unavailable men to you, I suspect it could have to do with some of these behaviors. If you have any behaviors that could be construed as bullying, demanding, disagreeable or controlling, then you’ll do best to lay them to rest. And you can have compliance without intimidating the other person.
It's just always a douchebag in that outfit, and a dumb one." - Naomi8.
"If a guy talks about how much money he makes, or even worse, tries to allude to it in a totally transparent, humblebraggy way, it's definitely a red flag.
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I bring this up because often times when a woman tells me she’s an “alpha female” or “strong independent woman,” alarm bells go off in my head.