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A lot of people think you have to wait a certain amount of dates to have sex with someone.
Typically I hear things like “Wait 3 dates before getting sexual.” Or sometimes I hear 5 dates, or 1 month, or even a few months, or yes, even marriage!
You basically sit through two hours of torture watching some crappy movie about god-knows-what, and when it finally ends and the lights turn on, you’ve virtually spent two boring and awkward-filled hours with a complete stranger! And oh yeah, take all of this advice about not going to the movies, and times it by 10 when it comes to dinner dates! Unless you are older than 50, take her someplace fun like Dave and Buster’s, karaoking, mini-golfing, a fair, a park, dancing, an event, even go kart racing.
All of these ideas beat the hell out of doing nothing but watching a movie or watching each other eat!
But the people dishing it out often have no idea what they’re talking about! The collateral damage of these poor recommendations can only be hypothesized. Here are 15 examples of the absolute worst dating advice for men out there. seeking useful tips to improve your dating life, it’s quite obvious that what you are currently doing is not working.
Horrible advice after more horrible advice is lent onto unsuspecting and vulnerable men each and every day.
We’ve all gotten advice at some point or another in our lives. “Just be yourself” takes the cake as being the worst piece of advice you can possibly get. By being yourself, and being the same person who has an ineffective dating life, you will not succeed!
People love giving their two cents to others when it concerns something they presume themselves to be an expert in. People who say, “Just be yourself,” really mean “Just be your part.
You can have sex on the first date and still have long-term relationships.
Now, don’t get me wrong, nice guys can often finish first with women (as my friend Kevin Alexander will tell you) but trying to be too nice, or trying to be someone you’re not, never works!
Guys who try to play into the nice-guy role are guys who just don’t have the confidence to be true to who they really are. They don’t have to “try” to be nice, they just are.
” It irks me in ways that can only be compared to fingernails scraping against grade-school chalkboards. Let’s think about this concept for a moment so I can emphasize the utter folly of this idea. When you go to the movies you literally have nothing to do but sit quietly and watch the movie. You have a stupid cup-holding barricade in between you two.
You try desperately and unsuccessfully to come up with funny comments relating to the movie.
When someone is their best self, they are all they can be and nothing more. Somewhere along the line paying for a woman when a man took her out on a date became shunned upon by the men’s self-help community.